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My Husband’s Drawers

September 09, 2008

As a newlywed I made a point of carefully folding and stacking my husband's clean laundry as I thought a good wife should do. But each week when I opened his dresser drawers to put the clean laundry away I would find everything already inside had been stirred into a messy heap. I'd have to straighten it all out before adding the newly washed items.

Finally I confronted him.

“Why can't you keep your things neat when I work so hard to get them that way?” He told me he preferred them all mixed together.

I didn't understand (and I still don't) but because I loved him, I began to simply dump his clean underwear into the existing pile, and found that by pleasing my husband my own work load had been lightened.

Sometimes I make myself submit to God even if what he's doing doesn't make sense to me because I have promised to love and obey him. My own life has been made better as a result.    

It's only because of my relationship with my husband that I do things according to his standards. And it's only because we are Christians that we need and want to follow God's commandments even if we don't always understand his purpose.

I Peter 1:14-15:  As obedient children, do not conform to the evil desires you had when you lived in ignorance. But just as he who called you is holy, so be holy in all you do.

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